What This Space Is
This is a resource for men who wear feminine clothing and people training for non-traditional physiques. Not a guide on how to blend in or pass. Not a community built on shame or secrecy. A space where you can find practical information, honest experiences, and the knowledge that you're not alone.
Whether you're here for the training, the clothing, or just curious about someone doing both publicly—welcome.
If You're Here, You're Probably...
Someone who's been wearing feminine clothing privately for years. Maybe decades. You've bought things in secret, worn them at home, and wondered what it would be like to just walk out the door. You know the buy-hide-purge cycle intimately. You're ready for something different.
→ Start with: The First Time Out: A Skirt, A Cafe, and 30 Years of Waiting
Training for aesthetics that don't fit the mold. You want curves, not bulk. An hourglass silhouette, not a V-taper. You've searched for guidance and found nothing useful—just assumptions that everyone wants the same thing. You don't. And you're ready to train accordingly.
→ Start with: Building the Hourglass: A Man's Guide to Waist-to-Hip Ratio Training
Looking for practical guidance you can't find anywhere else. How do you actually size women's clothing for a male body? What do you wear for a first outing? Where do you even start? You want real answers from someone who's actually done it, not theoretical advice from outside observers.
→ Start with: Choosing the Outfit: Skirt or Jeggings, Heels or Trainers
How to Explore
The Journal is the ongoing narrative—milestones, reflections, the honest story as it unfolds. Start from the beginning or drop in anywhere.
Articles are practical resources. Sizing guides, training protocols, the stuff people search for but can't find. Built from real experience.
The Gallery is visual documentation. Outfit shots, progress photos, the look in practice. See what this actually looks like.
The Two Tracks
This project has two intertwined tracks. They're not separate journeys—they're the same journey viewed from different angles.
BODY — Hypertrophy training for an hourglass silhouette: narrower waist, developed glutes and hips, the shape that serves how I want to present. Not fighting the feminine—training for it.
WEAR — Wearing feminine clothing publicly as myself—not transition, not performance, just authentic expression. Ending 30+ years of private cycles.
The physique serves the presentation. Building the shape to wear the silhouette.
If You're On A Similar Path
Maybe you're not ready to talk about it yet. That's fine. If you want to follow along quietly, get new entries delivered to your inbox. No spam, no selling your data, just the journey as it unfolds.
One More Thing
You don't need permission. You don't need to justify yourself to anyone. This is your life, your body, your expression.
Defiant, but warm. Confident, not combative. That's the energy here.